Monday, June 29, 2015

Bogotá: Week 2 to now, plus everything in between

My goodness, has it really already been almost a month since I've been in this wonderful country?  Carolina and I got here June 3 and it is already June 29.  But we have loved every second!  We have been completely surprised at how great our internship has gone; not that we thought it was going to be bad, but I don't think either of us ever thought we would be so close to our coordinators.

SPEAKING OF WHICH.  They took us to Girardot, a smaller vacationing area of Colombia a couple of weeks ago for a holiday weekend.  We stayed in a house that Edwin built, swam all weekend, and spent time with Edwin's awesome family.  I've learned so much since I've been here in Colombia, so I'll share as I go on with my stories.

1. Colombia and Ecuador have both made me really wish I had a super large family.

2. Colombia has THREE holidays in the month of June, all Catholic holidays.



Of course, I got sunburnt in Girardot.  Luckily, no sun poisoning and the burn didn't hurt.  It's always so funny when I get burnt in South America because it typically isn't horrible, I'm just red.  But everyone around me notices and comments on it, then asks me how bad it hurts.  Bizarre, but so funny.  Also, something else bizarre, they serve hot chocolate here in a HUGE mug, with a big block of cheese to tear apart and put into it.  So when it melts, you can scoop it out and eat it.

3. Cheese can go with everything down here.  Desserts, drinks, foods, especially all over pizza.

We made it back from Girardot just fine though and worked another week.  The following week, on Friday, Nestor (Edwin's dad) invited us to hike Monserrate with him.  As much as you think that an older gentleman would never be able to make it up Monsserate, you are sadly mistaken.  He probably could have hiked up and down in the time that it took me to make it to the top.  Luckily, Erika stayed behind with me; once we got to the top, she told me all about everything that was up there and why it was there.  It was kind of like taking a professor on the hike with me, hahaha.

I forgot to mention that she also took us to a Venezuelan restaurant for lunch two weeks ago and it was the best food I have ever eaten.  I EVEN ATE SALAD.  How many of you ever thought Clegg would eat salad and enjoy it?

Anyway, after the hike, we took the Funicular down, which is like a train made of nothing but windows.  It was really cool, but we beat Nestor, Carolina, and Valentina down because we thought they were already down waiting for us.  While we were waiting, a few people in Colombia sweat suits started to gather.  Turns out, we were in the presence of the Colombia National Boxing Team!

4. You are never too old to ask for a picture. Ever.




Friday night, we headed to Cali.  Not California, but Cali, Colombia.  HOME OF SALSA.  Thank God for my Aunt Nancy and her old host student, Andrés.  Andrés walked us ALL over the city and then later that night, we went out and he taught us both how to salsa.  It was definitely our favorite weekend in Colombia so far!  That Sunday was Father's day and we got to spend it with Andrés, his little brother Juanes, and his dad while watching the Colombia game.  Colombia didn't win, but at that point, they had moved on anyway.  Afterwards, we went back, got our things together, and went to eat cholados. I don't know exactly what they are still, other than a lot of fruit, some jelly/marmalade, and creme.  Basically that's all you need to know anyway.  After that, we went to see Cristo de Rey of Cali but it was already closed.  We still had an awesome view of Cali though, thanks to Andrés.  Really, we owe our entire weekend to Andrés because he shared his home and his friends with us.  OH AND HOW CAN I FORGET--I had this stuffed arepa and it was heaven.  Literally, all the food in Cali was heaven.  Cali was heaven.  Back to the real world though and to work.  That is, for two days or so.  Then, off to Ecuador!





I took a cab to the airport Wednesday to catch my flight to Quito.

5. Cab drivers are the most interesting people to talk to because they typically know so much about the city.

I didn't even struggle through security or the ticket counter, so I was feeling pretty confident.  After getting to my gate, where we took a bus to the tarmac and climbed into the plane, I was super excited to get to Ecuador.  I sat in the very last row of the plane and ended up not having anyone else in my row.  That was nice too, but of course, I'm a talker so I kind of wished I had had someone to pass the time with.  Getting back into Ecuador wasn't much of a struggle either--I thought it might be since I had just spent 5 months there.  Jose was waiting on me with his mama so I had a ride back.  I headed back to Cumbaya with him to grab sushi from my favorite place and wait on Raul to get out of class; I said bye to Jose and headed to Bo's with Raul.  Raul left a little bit later and I went out to ladies night with Bo; I've missed Bungalow hahaha.  I even found an OU flag waiting on me!



Thursday morning, I tried to get the wifi to work to Skype and couldn't get it to function.  So I basically just spent all afternoon with Raul watching Netflix.  How I Met Your Mother is definitely not House of Cards, but it's good enough.  Later, we walked to the mall to get food.  What's funny is that when people ask me the differences between Bogotá and Quito, I always talk about being cat called.  No one believes me that the cat calls are horrible in Quito, but they are.  Even walking with Raul, someone started whistling on the way, calling me gringuita and guapa and princess, the usual.  Needless to say, my point was proven.  We basically just wandered around chatting after dinner until he had to go home.  I spent the rest of my time with Bo, catching up and watching 10 things I hate about you on Netflix.  Since there were so many protests in Quito on Thursday, it was pretty tough to cross the city so I'm glad I stayed close.

Friday was just kind of a relaxing day, without much to do until I went to Raul's later to watch even more Netflix and hang out with him and his sister.  It's pretty cool when you find someone who you can hang out with and be super content watching Netflix with all night.  I took a cab home--they all try to rip you off at night and charge extra because "it's late".  Typical.



Saturday morning, I woke up at Bo's and headed "home"--aka host mama's house.  I took her to the best brunch place I have ever been to in Quito, named Jurgen's (shout out to Amilia and Antonia) and she had never been, even though it was within walking distance.  After hanging out with her for a few hours and sharing stories about Colombia, I headed to Raul's...yeah, again.  His mama wanted to meet me!  Which was both exciting and nerve-wracking for me.  Moms are intimidating, but it's almost always guaranteed that I'll get along with the dads.  Host mom wished me luck and walked me downstairs to find a cab.  The driver looked a little odd so she took his card and told me to text her when I got to Raul's.  The cab ride was....interesting to say the least.  Of course, he asked me what my name was.

6. EVERY TAXI DRIVER YOU WILL EVER MEET WILL FREAK OUT WHEN YOU SAY YOUR NAME IS RAQUEL.  They love it, refer to the Bible, then unnecessarily roll the R and incessantly refer to you as Raquel.

Anyway, he talked to me about Correa and the history of Quito and then we got "lost".  Even though I  knew right where we were, he wouldn't listen to me.  Calls to Raul failed, so he continued to say he didn't know where he was going and asking people on the street.  Finally, almost to Raul's, he begins asking me what I'm doing that day.  I started getting a weird vibe, and then next thing I know, he is asking me on a date.  So I casually tell him I'm going to my boyfriend's to meet his family, hoping that Raul will be outside when I get there....naturally, he decides that he's going to charge me $7 instead of the $5 he debated with my host mom.  I gave him $5 and quickly said bye.

Raul's mama made a massive lunch of crab and salmon and salad.  I have never cracked crab before...luckily, his entire family was full of pros.  So I sat with Joaquin, his seven year old brother, and learned along side him.  Nothing is embarrassing anymore, I suppose.  Afterwards, we watched the Brazil-Paraguay game and then headed to the movies.  Thankfully, Raul is about as impatient as I am with movies and we both thought Jurassic World was horrible.  We went to Guapulo to enjoy the rest of the night since it was late, but still beautiful outside.  It was literally such a perfect day, full of the Navarrete family and so many things to do.



Sunday was hard.  It was actually really hard.  I got up and packed, said bye to Bo, and headed back to Raul's once again.  His family, being as sweet as they are, took me all around Quito with them.  We stopped in Jardín to see my sweet friend Daniel for one last time and then just wandered around Quicentro for a while.  When I thought we were done, his dad told us we were going to his grandma's so we could have lunch and I could meet her before I left.  That's when it hit me that I was leaving in a few short hours and I didn't have much time left with Raul, which sucked.  I'm not an emotional gal, but awkwardly started tearing up when I was saying bye to his grandma.  We went back to Raul's and I got another solid hour with him and Netflix before we officially had to leave.  His parents were nice enough to drive me all the way to the airport and let us say bye.  Easily, the hardest goodbye I've ever said.  Luckily, the ugly tears didn't happen in front of Raul or at the check-in counter, but at the gate.  In front of a number of confused Colombians.  

7. It's okay to have feelings, even if it means they are for someone who doesn't live in the same country as you. Or on the same continent.

Today was a holiday in Colombia, so we relaxed at home all day.  It was weird because it's the first day back in Bogotá and after getting into a routine of spending all my time with Raul, it made it that much harder.  But Carolina and I are certainly excited to see what is to come for the rest of our internship and time here with the Cerquera family.

The pain of parting is nothing to the joy of meeting again.
-Charles Dickens

Wednesday, June 10, 2015

First week/weekend

There's a first time for everything, am I right or am I right?

I say that because my American Airlines flight was on time!!!!  I'm just as surprised as y'all are.  Best of all, even my LUGGAGE ARRIVED ON THE SAME FLIGHT AS ME!

Anyway, we traveled all night Tuesday and arrived in Bogotá on Wednesday morning at around 12:15.  We met someone named Bryce, who was about our age, on our flight.  As if y'all thought that me traveling here with someone and having a host family was dangerous, Bryce is backpacking about Colombia for the next two weeks.  Insane, right?  You learn a lot about a person on a five hour flight. Now, we are settled into our host family's house and they are all so sweet.  This is actually the first time I have ever lived in a house with men in it (once again, first time for everything) so adjusting to that.  I have a host mom, host dad, host brother, and host sister and of course, Carolina is with me and has known them since she was just a little nugget.

I'm back in the land of fresh food.  IT IS SO GREAT.  I woke up Wednesday with Carolina and our host mama, Patricia, had prepared a breakfast for us full of fresh fruit and fresh juice and eggs.  I had mentioned to her the night before that I liked arepas, so she prepared one of those for me too.  I can't complain whatsoever.  Once we got going on Wednesday, we had a FULL day.  We met up with Erika, our internship coordinator, to go over our intern tasks.  Luckily, she's like Carolina and I in the fact that she's excited and can work with two scatter-brained girls.  We went and grabbed lunch afterwards and I had some delicious Colombian food.  Seriously, you have no idea.  We met Edwin's (our other coordinator and Erika's husband) mama because it was her restaurant, she's a phenomenal lady too.  We left, caught a cab back to Erika's, grabbed our things and got ready to leave.  Somehow, in the midst of all of that, we had a typo in the address that we sent to our Uber driver.  Needless to say, we got lost.  We went south instead of north, and ended up spending two hours in the cab.  What are the odds?

We got home safely though!  Shout out to Patricia for her patience.  She's also hysterical, so I love her.  She also made me try this weird fruit called a guama and they're weird, but so delicious.  Seriously, google them.  Afterwards, we went to Jumbo (their version of Super Target) and picked up a few things.  I told Carolina we need to order our tickets soon to Ecuador because the Pope is coming, so tickets will be expensive if we don't hurry.  I forgot she's Catholic, you should have seen how excited she got.  So excited that she accidentally slammed her head on the inside of the car hahaha.

Surprisingly enough, we have already gotten to travel and just got back from a night-bus trip on Thursday night to Bucaramanga to see how Smile Education Foundation's programs are working there.  We have an AWESOME program in Rionegro going on with a music program that we've been sponsoring.  It's shocking to see how much happiness some xylophones and maracas can bring to a group of kids and their entire community as well.  As most of you know, I have zero patience and kids usually aren't really my thing (unless they are extremely well behaved or I can pass them off to their parents when they start crying/snotting/being bratty) but these kids were SO bright and wonderful.  I can't wait to get the footage that we got up onto the Smile Education Foundation Facebook page.  ALSO LET'S TALK ABOUT THE BUSES HERE!?  Not Ecuador, not even a bit.  They had charging ports and wifi and seats that reclined 160 degrees.  ANYWAY.  Shout out to Edwin and Erika for taking us along and introducing us to the program because it was so great.



After seeing the program in Rionegro, Carolina and I were off to meet Hector & Deisy Mendez, the father & sister of our friend Sergio.  Little did we know, we were in for quite the weekend.  We went and had pizza on Friday night (best idea ever) and went straight to sleep afterwards.  We woke up early Saturday and headed to Chicamocha National Park--easily one of the most beautiful places I have ever been.  Hector showed us all around, walked up and down the mountains with us, and even watched our stuff while we got on the extreme swing.  Best $5 I ever did spend, by the way; then came the trip in dune buggies where Carolina almost drove us off of a mountain.  Lesson learned: Carol drives fast and Colombian dune buggies are not to be trusted.  Anyway, we ate a ton of arepas and enjoyed the whole day.  Although exhausting, it was most definitely worth it.  The following day, we slept in (for our first time since we've been in Colombia) and then got dressed and headed out to see a little bit of Bucaramanga.  Hector and Deisy treated us to lunch at the best steakhouse I have ever been to.  I seriously mean that, the food was so good.  Afterwards, we hit Giron, a small part of Bucaramanga.  It's a cute little town and I also experienced my first Catholic Mass--which was great, but a little bit weird since I had never been before, but still worth the experience.  From there, despite our massive meal at lunch, we went to have dessert in Florida Blanca.  These things called obleas.  Talk about heaven.  Afterwards, we spent some time at the local mall and headed back on a bus.  Such a beautiful weekend with a beautiful family!





Now, obviously, we're back in Bogotá learning the ropes of a massive city; so thankful for Erika and Edwin and their patience with us.  Not to mention Edwin's awesome dad, who treated us to lunch from his bakery today.  He's also hilarious.  Carol and I got back from work today and decided to kind of wander the neighborhood, go to the grocery store, and see what was around us--well worth it. Can't wait to see what else Bogotá has in store for us for sure.  This weekend, we are off to Giradot with Edwin and Erika since Monday is a holiday (this Monday was a holiday too...and in two more weeks, there's another holiday) to catch some rays by the pool.  If all of y'all could say a quick prayer that I don't get sun poisoning again, that would be great.  

Also, bought my ticket to Ecuador this week so Quito, I WILL SEE YOU AND ALL OF MY FAVORITE PEOPLE IN TWO SHORT WEEKS!  Peace and blessings, y'all.

If things seem under control, you are just not going fast enough. 

-Mario Andretti


Monday, June 1, 2015

Beginning (again) in Bogotá

Clegg here, per usual, after everyone else's bedtimes.

CAROLINA AND I GOT TO DALLAS TODAY!  We fly out tomorrow at 7 PM for Bogotá.  It's all starting to feel real now and I couldn't be more excited.  Carolina's snoozing next to me because she already hasn't slept the last two days out of excitement.  

After my ride fell through to Norman for yesterday, one of my friend's from high school volunteered to drive me to Norman.  So I treated her to Tea Cafe, which has the BEST fried rice in all of Norman, and she was on her way.  My friend Adam stopped by to see me for one last time this summer and then was nice enough to carry my suitcases down the three flights of stairs for me.  How lucky am I?!  Carolina's parents drove us to my grandparents' today from Norman and we all went out to eat at Texas Land & Cattle, aka the BEST steak place in all of Dallas (I think).  After some getting to know everyone a little more, we quickly returned and here we are.

Carolina and I received some seriously exciting news already as well.  We will literally get to hit the ground running once we get to Colombia!  We don't land until after midnight on Wednesday morning and Thursday night (arriving Friday morning), we will be traveling to Bucaramanga to see some of the Smile Education Foundation's investments be put to work, which means we already get to see some precious little kids who are benefitting major from this program.  I cannot believe we have been given such an opportunity already but we are seriously like two jabbering monkeys just going non stop.  

On a more personal note, I realized today how much I've done in the past year and it made me feel really good.  From starting & finishing an internship at the State Department and surviving living in Washington, D.C. for a summer to moving straight back into Norman to start school and to start another internship under Tilley & Nichols.  Moved out of Norman and back home to Owasso, then onto Ecuador for an entire semester.  Although it wasn't legal to work while I was there so I couldn't have an internship, I learned and experienced SO much from my time abroad and gained some serious language skills for Spanish.  I also have a second family abroad AND my friends, who I seriously have shed tears over because I already miss them tons.  Now here I am, off to another place to live and work for a summer, this time it will all be in Spanish.  No worries though, blogs will be kept in English.  I'm actually really freakin' proud of myself because three years ago, if anyone had told me this was happening, I probably would not have believed them.  As cliché as it sounds.  But of course, in hindsight, everything is 20/20.

Thought I'd update y'all and let you know we're flying straight out of Dallas.  Hopefully American Airlines can't mess up a straight through flight like they messed up my Mother's Day surprise...

So keep us in your thoughts as we travel to BOGOTÁ, COLOMBIA tomorrow!  

And if you need to get into contact with me, make sure you send TEXT MESSAGES instead of iMessages!  

Peace and blessings.



Security is mostly a superstition.  It does not exist in nature, nor do the children of men as a whole experience it.  Avoiding danger is no safer in the long run than outright exposure.  Life is either a daring adventure, or nothing.
-Helen Keller